since getting together with my girlfriend i've learnt a lot on how to keep it together. how to know her better. how to read her. it really helped with trying to keep us together. we've been together for 3 years now. the longest i ever been with anyone in my whole life and i don't feel like starting over with someone else because my girlfriend and i, we know each other well. we simply can read each other. and as of today we can read each other even when she's at home in ipoh and i'm in Nilai. we are meant to be.
we've been through a lot of shit. mostly came from me. what do you expect? i'm a bitch somehow. but she's still the one i turn to. she's the one i called, 'home'. hah! bapak jiwang!
ever wonder why suddenly your partner isn't that good looking like the one who's sitting at the corner? my answer is that you just forgot how they look like.
when you go out. chilling. shopping. you walk. and when you walk, you walk side by side. you watch movies in the cinemas, you were sitting side by side. groping each other. then you dine. and when you dine you dine side by side. and when you make love at night you turned off the light (except for the ones who wants a video out of it). side by side. and when the time you have to sit facing each other, the mood change because you can't grope and you can only stare and do nothing. and at this time you realized how gorgeous or ugly your partner is.
the point of sitting side by side is either to grope the girlfriend's tits, to stay close or just for the sake of telling everybody that the girl / dude is yours.
what i've learnt from being together with my girlfriend is that to read facial expressions so it would be easier for us to know what's right and what's wrong. no we didn't walked facing each other. we walked side by side like everyone else. but when we dine, we face each other. and when we dine. we talked a lot and at that time we can see facial expressions changes. bad, good, happy, sad, mad. most of the time i'll face her. we tend to keep what we don't like inside. that's why facial reading helped us knowing each other well.
and when problem arise. most of side-by-side lovers can't cope. they tend to lie. its easier to lie when sitting side by side. hard when facing each other. side by side lovers will avoid eye contact when problem arise. the furious one will sharpen their looks and the guilty half will avoid eye contact. it has been like that all this time but you never realized it.
try facing each other when dining. it helps. plus it would be easier to eat or to spoon feed each other eh? most of the time lovers won't tell. it is up to the other one to read what's inside. that's why facing each other is important.
a few years before i've met my girlfriend, i've been in a lot of side-by-side relationship. it didn't work out. hell yeah its fucked up when you can't read. its about satisfying your partner (off the bed).
today i'm the love doctor~ fuck me~
Idler
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